I'm saying that it takes two to tango. Responsibility lies on both sides. If you choose, it's your job to point out a problem (as long you at least offer one solution) to the "powers that be." I just don't want you to think that breaking off solves all the problems of being ignored. Someone will always feel left out because that just seems to be the nature of groups like this. You can only make some of the people happy some of the time, striving for most on both counts.